(HOA) Best Intentions

Ugh. Three owners complain back and forth over group email. Two have always been complaining and refusing to pay dues and assessments. One is way behind in payments, but has claimed that mostly due to loss of work and such.

I email the third directly, laying out some concerns we share, and trying to explain some others. My hope is that he can be convinced to be supportive rather than making trouble. He ends up forwarding this back to the list (minus a couple parts talking about the other two individuals), with his response. Our property manager sees this and seems to focus in on the parts where I mention that I have doubts about her and her company (overlooking the parts where I say I think the mistakes were honest and we can get through them). So she responds with a reply to the board members implying I'm trying to go behind all their backs and undermine them or something.

So I get to write an apology there to try to sooth her and explain what I was really trying to accomplish. I also get a huge headache and general ill feeling out of the deal, I get to wonder how she'll take my reply, and I get the distinct feeling that I should give up on communications altogether. Email contact and lists like this should make it easier to keep everyone informed and on the same page, but I feel like I can't sneeze without pissing someone off. Fuckin' joy.

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  1. kyn_elwynnApril 30, 2010 at 5:12 PM

    I thought we left high school drama back in high school

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